The author is Mari Tiira, a nurse and the founder of EkoElsa
Intimate hygiene raises many questions: can you use soap, what parts should be washed and what shouldn't, and why is plain water sometimes not enough?
This blog will explain the matter clearly, using proper terminology and without unnecessary circumlocution.
Basic principle: not all skin is the same
The intimate area has both:
- normal skin (such as the groin folds and intergluteal cleft)
- mucous membranes (such as the vaginal opening and inner labia)
These should not be cared for in the same way.
Female intimate area – what to wash and how?
🔹 Areas to wash with water only:
- Inner labia
- Vaginal opening (externally)
These are mucous membranes, which mostly self-cleanse.
Soap can:
- dry
- irritate
- disturb the natural bacterial balance
👉 Therefore, for these areas, plain water is sufficient.

🔹 Areas that can (and often should) be washed with soap:
- Outer labia (skin side)
- Groin folds
- Folds between the thighs and pubic area
- Intergluteal cleft (anus)
These are normal skin, where:
- sweat accumulates
- oil
- skin cells
- bacteria
Many notice, especially with age, body changes, or weight gain, that:
- folds deepen
- odor develops faster
- skin may become red or chafed
👉 In these areas, mild soap is entirely justified and often necessary.
If these areas are not cleaned properly:
- skin irritation may occur
- infections
- unpleasant odor
Important practical advice
Wash the intimate area from front to back (pubic area → anus) to prevent bacteria from spreading in the wrong direction.
Male intimate area – what to consider?
Male intimate hygiene is simpler but equally important.
🔹 Areas to wash:
1. Penis
- If uncircumcised: pull back the foreskin and wash the glans area
- Smegma (white discharge) easily accumulates here
- Wash with water or, if necessary, mild soap
2. Scrotum
- Normal skin → can be washed with soap
- Sweats a lot → washing is important
3. Groin folds
- Prone to chafing and odor
- Soap is recommended
4. Intergluteal cleft
- Keep clean with soap

How often should one wash?
- Usually once a day is enough
- More often if needed after sweating, exercise, or sex
Excessive washing (especially with soap on mucous membranes) can also cause problems.
What kind of soap?
If you use soap:
A separate intimate wash is not mandatory — a regular mild soap is sufficient for the skin.
🔹 Good practical options
When choosing soap for the intimate skin area, mildness and respecting the skin are key. Strong, drying products should be avoided, but plain water is not always enough to keep folds and chafed areas clean.
Good and effective options include, for example:
-
Keijukaisen Calendula Soap
→ A gentle and soothing choice for daily washing, suitable for sensitive skin.
-
Pehtoori's Tar Soap
→ Especially good if the skin is irritated, chafed, or red. Tar soothes and cleanses effectively.
-
Salt Soaps
→ Work well in folds and sweaty areas where bacteria and odor easily form. Especially the unscented Kumpeli Salt Soap is very suitable for sensitive areas.
If irritation or signs of inflammation (redness, stinging, unpleasant odor) have already appeared in the folds, washing alone is not always enough.
👉 In such cases, Pehtoori's Tar Ointment can help soothe the skin quickly.
Many notice relief immediately after use, and often the skin calms down significantly by the next day.
Summary – this is most important to remember
- Mucous membranes (e.g., inner labia) → water only
- Skin folds and creases → soap if necessary
- Odor and irritation often arise from unwashed skin folds, not "excessive washing"
- Everyone's body is different – it's important to listen to your own body
Finally
Intimate hygiene is not complicated, but it is often discussed too vaguely.
Understanding the difference between skin and mucous membranes already does most of the work correctly.
Honestly:
👉 the "wash with water only" instruction is not enough for all bodies and in all life situations.
Therefore, the most important thing is to understand which part is being washed – and why.




